It's MzMartiPants to you!

Originally published at Marti Abernathey.com. You can comment here or there.

I recently talked to an internets friend on the phone. She lives in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. She made mention of us hanging out if I ever got up to her neck of the woods. So I go over to google maps… and this comes up:

First of all, what’s up with North Dakota? I think google maps is trying to tell me something

I get frustrated because I don’t take any road trips anymore. Even though I owned a motorcycle in my youth, I’m not a big fan of them. But I’m seriously thinking of buying one so I can make road trips without a huge cost of gas and mileage on a car (you can pick up a smaller cc bike for under $2000 usd that gets 60 -70 mpg).

Originally published at Marti Abernathey.com. You can comment here or there.

Three people in my life, are family to me… but they’re not! Confused? Most of the readers of this blog aren’t, because they know the isolation and the rejection that most GLBT people feel at some point in their queer experience. If you don’t have accepting people in your life, you find and connect with others that do accept and love you. With that explanation I’d like to introduce you to my chosen family.

Ethan St. Pierre

My chosen brother, Ethan has been through just about every trial I’ve gone through. He truly is the best friend I’ve ever had. He is my rock, my fellow activist, and the person who I trust more than anyone else in the world. He’s proven his love for me in action, and words. I’m grateful that he’s a part of my family.

Jennifer Perdue aka “Peg Leg Hooker”

This bitch has met Ron Jeremy in his hotel room, trolloped with me through graveyards and abandoned insane asylums, and had midnight discussions at the IHOP at 16th and Meridian. She’s someone that’s always stood by me no matter what. We’ve gone through so much crap together, she’s seen sides of me that no one else has (or probably wants to). I could never stop being friends with Jennifer, she knows where I buried the bodies!!!!!

Aida

Aida’s my spiritual twin. We connect in a way that I’ve never connected with another human. Many times we go through quite similar phases or feelings, without knowing it! She’s actually the genesis of this post. She made a comment about me feeling like a sister. That feeling is 100 percent mutual. I don’t know what connects us, but I trust in it 100 percent.

Through the years, I’ve had quite a few people come and go in my life. These three people have been there solidly for me. Ethan, Jennifer, and Aida, I love you. You ARE my family. I’m blessed to have you in my life.

P.S. In a bit of synchronicity, I had my mp3 player on random and a song that came on fit my feelings perfectly.

Weezer - My Best Friend

When everything is wrong I’ll come talk to you
You make things alright when I’m feeling blue

You are such a blessing and I wont be messing
With the one thing that brings light to all of my darkness

You’re my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do

There is no other one who can take your place
I feel happy inside when I see your face
I hope you believe me
Cause I speak sincerely
and I mean it when I tell you that I need you

You’re my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do

I’m here right beside you
I will never leave you
and I feel the pain you feel when you start crying

You’re my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do

You’re my best friend
and I love you, and I love you
Yes I do
Yes I do…
Yes I do

LOL....listening to Marilyn Manson...what A FREAK....I LOVE HIM! A song called MY MONKEY....thasssss crazzzzzey! Waiting o Waiting on my check to come in the mail...gonna try and get it cashed....damn HOSPITal.

Ive met some really great people on LJ. You know who you are Brenda!

LJ is like a matrix....Ive met many people through other people...and joined other lists..from others....its like this haphazard hit or miss thing. Im not sure what I love about it. I think people are more honest and open when they type stuff out. You see their core....their personality. No Front...No Pretense....I like that. Btw.....i have a foul mouth. I cant believe I kiss myself with this mouth!

Im an odd person. I actually bought this book ANYTHING makeup...I love. BG is someone I've always loved. I admire people that push envelopes and are themselves..no matter whos watching! Loved Kevyn Aucoin too...was saddened when he died. Im pretty cynical....so that was a big moment!

I cant wait to go to SF ...to see Dr O. Ive decided to pay off all my debts before having my facial surgery..so Im guessing its gonna be at least a year or two before I have my surgery. This living in the middle sucks ass! Im on a good path..but damn. Ive never been one for having patients. Well im outta here for the weekend! I love you all!..but I love myself more.

:)